So you are after the perfect lover right? Well sorry to burst your bubble but if you are searching for something that doesn’t exist, then you are simply never going to find it. This “something” that doesn’t exist is the elusive notion of a “perfect lover”. There is no such thing as perfection in this world. So why waste your time trying to find it? Because if you do, you will be bitterly disappointed time and time again.
If you have been searching for the perfect lover for all these years, don’t get upset because a lot of people are like this also. They are constantly searching for things outside the realm of reality in the hope that they can obtain these things. I too use to believe in the myth of the perfect lover. I would judge people to harshly and put them into a “do not touch” filing cabinet if they didn’t meet my standards of what I defined as “perfect” and believe me not too many people got through this filing cabinet system of mine.
It was only with the help of from the information that I learned within the Girlfriend Activation System that I was finally able to escape the myth of the perfect lover and fix up my internal filing system. Now I’m not looking for “perfect” instead I’m looking for “compatible” and someone who sets my heart of fire in multiple ways. I’m looking for someone who is balanced on many levels from spiritual, physical, mental, emotional and so on.
After adjusting the qualities of what I was looking for I quickly met the person of my dreams. It was like they just showed up in my life. This is what happens when you drop impossible standards, while still maintaining a high standard but not one that you will never ever reach in a billion life times.
So if you are searching for the perfect lover, I urge you to drop this ridiculous quest and instead readjust what you are looking for in a person. When you do this you will quite literally start seeing the world through a new mental filter and one that will allow you to see the world through a new, fresh filter of possibility.
You perfect lover is not out there in the world. But your ideal lover is. So go forth and find them by adjusting and tweaking your judgements.